I want to start off by saying that our session changed me. I am now looking for the sweet amongst the bitter and am finding it hiding there. Thank you.
I lost my dear husband, Bob, on September 12, 2014 after a completely unexpected brief illness of 10 days. He was calm, peaceful and accepting of his fate stating that he knew this was God’s will for him. We both knew that the reason we are living our lives is to love and to accept love. I reassured Bob that he had loved me very well–even when I was at my most unlovable.
On the night that he left us I returned to our home and prayed to die. I prayed this ugly prayer daily as I cried my heart out. I couldn’t imagine a life without him. God brought us together and I wouldn’t accept that God would want to keep us apart this way. I thought about suicide, had a plan and the means to carry it out. However, I knew that Bob would vehemently disapprove and abandoned that plan.
I received a lot of support during the next few weeks.. Friends and family would call me daily and reassure me that my grief process was “normal”. (Bob was a counsellor and always used to say that ‘normal’ is halfway between delicate and heavy duty on the washing machine.) They didn’t know that I was barely taking care of myself and living in a tomb with the drapes blocking out any daylight and signs of life outside.
I don’t know how I managed to get through Bob’s memorial service and Thanksgiving. They are both a blur. I smiled but inside I was screaming. With Myste’s guidance, I believe I will be better equipped to handle my birthday this month, Bob’s birthday next month, and of course, Christmas. Myste has a way of guiding me and putting my scattered shreds of thoughts into words. (Bob also used to say “How do I know what I think until I hear what I say?). She has helped me to crack open a door, just a little bit, and believe that there just might still be some purposeful life to be lived.
Myste has gently guided me, carefully challenged me and encouraged me with as much caring and love over the telephone as if she was here beside me and was a trusted friend I had known for years. We have only talked twice and the effect of her coaching has been profound. She has provided me with practical tools that have proven to be effective and easy to use. I have learned how to neutralize negative thoughts and memories. I have a sticky note on my mirror that reads “Do I have to die to get to Heaven or do I have to live?”
Today, I have my drapes wide open with the sun shining in. I am taking better care of myself and actually cooked a real dinner two days in a row (that is news). I have a photo of Bob here beside me and he is smiling at me and letting me know that he is proud of me. I have spent a lifetime taking care of others and now, finally, I feel that I am at the top of my list. I am eagerly looking forward to working through the Bittersweet Breakthrough course materials.
I believe that my Bob is taking care of me by putting opportunities in my path. I am grateful that he led me to Myste.
When I worked with Myste, I was in a state of uncertainty and indecision – both very uncomfortable places to be. Even though I was resistant to feeling all of that, Myste was patient with me and offered positive suggestions and new ways to think about my situation. Weeks later, I still think about the work she had me do which brought clarity and peace to me in a stressful situation.
~ Kelly Bopp
When I started working with Myste my life was ok but I was stuck in moving forward. I knew what I wanted to do, I was just not able to act on my desires. With Myste’s help and support I cleaned up my act and set some specific goals. As a result I am now managing my finances more effectively and I feel in control of my studies, home environment and my love life. Coaching with Myste has definitely been a worthwhile investment. She is such a warm and loving person who made me feel comfortable at once.
I am embarking on a new part of my life and I am so excited. I feel like the door has been opened to the most exciting part of my life – I can’t wait!
Thank you for your help and insights 🙂 you are an amazing coach. The most, you have an incredible calm energy that made me feel safe and secure at once.
~ Marianne Okdal, Kinesiology Practitioner, Norway
I love the course. I had never really knew how to ID what I was truly afraid of. Bittersweet Breakthrough has helped me to come to realize what this is. I also have come to see how it has been reinforced throughout my lifetime. I have enjoyed the exercises and the thoughtful questions that have been apart of the course. I like the meditations. I feel that Facing your fear is much easier once you have named it!
For the most part, I have to work hard at understanding things, however this course was simple and to the point. Because it was a “quiet”? course. Not sure how else to explain it, but it was peaceful and it made it easier to do for me. I could concentrate on each exercise and meditation specifically. I love the sounds and the way the voice was not intimidating.
I would take more courses from here.
It has been very helpful to me for many reasons. Realizing what my core fear was has opened my eyes and helped clean out the cobwebs of my life! Thank you!
~ Lynette Jia
Myste Lyn speaks from inner authority which comes from her own sense of presence. This carries immense power. Her quiet strength envelops the painful bits and like a blanket wraps them up so they feel cared for.
Myste’s quality of quiet presence empowers her sharp perception. Her gift of being able to take a big story and simplify it until she has the essence of it, is astounding.
I have known Myste Lyn in her capacity as Life Coach and Counsellor since April of 2014. After three delightful sessions with her she has taken me from a state of licking my wounds after my traumatic loss, to being able to articulate and set my new goals for my life.
Her light spirit exudes a simplicity that lets her soar. From the vantage point of being above the tangles, she can identify accurately areas needing attention and masterfully capture the essence in a few words; for me she provided the slogan “Beauty before duty.” This lets me check my motivation before action. I would have no hesitation in recommending her to my friends!
email May 6 2016
Thank you so much for walking into my life. I loved the session with you. Your energy feels so calm and pure. When we worked on my inner baby girl and baby boy I felt immediate change after each step you did with me in the session. I have no idea how you do it but it feels awesome! I felt crazy happiness at the end of the session!
The same day I experienced that I was not afraid anymore to connect to people I don’t know and to speak to a group of people. The nervousness and fear was gone. The following days I woke up with a much better feeling and I even felt more peaceful.
I kept working on the healing process for the inner babies like you told me. Recently I experienced a wonderful feeling: I was in a park and suddenly I felt this little inner baby on the middle of my chest sleeping so innocent and peaceful like never before. I feel nothing else but so much love for this little child in me. Thank you for being a big part of this process. You were the river that moved away the blocks. You feel like blue clear water.
A big thank you to Myste Lyn who coached me. She is my Oak Tree, my strength.
If you are going to be coached by Myste, then you are in good hands. Myste has the capability of zoning into what is really going on behind your excuses, laments and “why can’t I”, towards a more uplifting focus of the issue at hand.
Being coached by her was a true blessing. For me, it was the last piece of the puzzle before I started stepping into my own greatness. She helped me take that step. Her coaching methods are not of the ordinary for she caters to lifting your spirit towards your purpose.
Describing her skills will not do justice to what she is truly capable of. You have to experience it one on one to feel the awesome, gentle power that she is. I encourage you to make that step for you will be blown away by her wisdom, awareness and presence. It is my honour and privilege to write this and hope that she touches your life with her greatness.
~ Karishma Gill, Reiki Master & Intuitive
Thanks again for the laser coaching session you gave to me. It is amazing to me to see the difference in my behaviour since we spoke. The ‘little self’ you helped me discover buried deep within me, is now being acknowledged and included in many choices I make and I am feeling more complete and confident! I did the left-handed drawing that you suggested and found it to be quite cathartic. You also taught me about humming, and I am including that in my mediation practice. I also used the high pitched humming to rid myself of something that was causing a digestive upset. I was feeling better within hours.
Although my intention was to open my heart fully, I was feeling stuck, as if there was a barrier around my heart that was stopping me from loving fully. In a short time, you were able to direct me to the core of the problem I was seeking to solve. You have a soothing voice, perfect for the guided meditation you led me through. You quickly identified the root of the problem as soon as I described what I was feeling inside. That was impressive, because this is something I have been trying to figure out for a long time. You taught me some helpful tips that I continue to use.
You helped me identify where I am holding and protecting my ‘little self’. Now when I react to something, I recognize that my reaction is coming from that place, and is not based on my true feelings or needs. I am able to let go of my typical defensive reaction and make better, less reactive decisions.
I feel that I have started to shine my light into a dark place inside of myself! That’s interesting because my goal for this laser coaching session was to allow my light to shine brighter in the world, to stop holding it back and being less than I am capable of. So, I have learned that there is a part of me that I have been protecting and as I explore that place, I will naturally open myself up.
Laser coaching is exactly the right name for what you did. By leading me to a still place within myself, then asking a few direct questions about what I was feeling, you were able to pinpoint the problem quickly. I am very grateful for what was accomplished, and will use you again when I am feeling stuck.
I am so blessed to have Myste Lyn enter my life. What an incredibly intuitive; so full of love woman!! She is a Love Warrior to me. I feel she will giggle at this, yet such truth from my heart. Myste is a very courageous woman and with her courage she guided me with such gentle loving support to embrace my fears of rejection. It was a HUGE issue to me and it feels as if Myste literally took my hand and walked me through the fear. Although I was engulfed in what I would have to call terror at that time, Myste was so calm and so in tune to what was happening with me, that I was able to relax into her supportive guidance. So much love.
It took only one coaching session with Myste and I AM FREE. I had signed up for three calls and our next session was a total turn around. It was an hour of me laughing and sharing the realizations of how I had been holding myself back in life for fear of being rejected. I was now free of the limitations and worry of others judgement and opinions. I was laughing with the recognition of where I had been during our last session which was a place of intense fear. With Myste loving and supporting me, I was able to see where I had been stuck with a new set of eyes.
I do have situations in life now that continue to test me with rejection issues. But the tools that Myste shared with me, support me in being able to deal with this instantly. I am able now to live my life from an authentic ME!! I now have courage to reach for my dreams, my goals, and my desires. And I know now, the importance of who I am and all the love I have to share with the world.
I am so Blessed and am forever Grateful for Myste Lyn.
Please see before and after pictures –>
~Jaci Pozdzik (in her natural hair color)